ABUSE, being women, culture, freedom

No Man Has A Right To Hit A Women

yeah that is right what my title says that men do not have the right to hit a women regardless of the reason there is no excuse for hitting beating any women as you can see in the world many countries ,places ,cultures have domestic violence and that violence is mostly by husbands or you can say a boyfriends in Europe but domestic violence exist either its in America,India ,Africa or even Pakistan it occurs we can not say that in this country or place it do not happen in america 1.3 women are assaulted by there partners each year according to CDC reports

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 World wide this violence against women at the hands of there intimate partner happens how strong you make the laws it still happens but these laws at least makes a hope and place to call out when injustice happens to you so its good that these laws are made but in some place there are no law against violence http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/03/08/countries-no-domestic-violence-law_n_4918784.html

In some countries the religious scholars will say its okay to beat your wife just like in Pakistan  in November i think so Pakistan prim minister Nawaz Sharif enacted a landmark domestic violence bill and also pushing to end child marriage and  did a big thing by unblocking YouTube in Pakistan many of the religious scholars were mad Nawaz Sharif and his party for doing this and some people made fun of him and one religious person gave statement like a husband can hit her wife gently that do not leave any kind of redness

http://tribune.com.pk/story/1111222/nothing-serious-gentle-beating-wife-no-violence-says-cii-chief/

Actually there was going to be made a bill in parliament so every party did there’s work ¬†when these statements came out there was response from alot of women who give tweets like hit us and we will do this and that it was quite inspirational and brave showing¬†Pakistani¬†women would not take any kind of abuse¬†

http://tribune.com.pk/story/1112827/trybeatingmelightly-pakistani-women-react-cii-bill-powerful-portrait-series/

http://tribune.com.pk/story/1114476/heres-happens-hamza-ali-abbasi-tries-lightly-beat-mahira-khan/

So what i mean by this is that enough for hitting women and at first i was too angry at the religious scholars statements but then after seeing the response from all the women united was good many women may in villages bear this but the women that would not making it law would not be good 

Basically in Islam its not said to beat a women if there is less salt or anything it is different it is said for doing adultery that if a women commits adultery or have an affair so the husband must first talk to her if she do not listen then separate the bed with her if she do not listen then this is the last stop but it said to use a handkerchief like no kind of damage is allowed no hitting or slapping but if it makes a law then man will misuse and it will hurt the self respect of women that is what i think but Islam also says then that you are not allowed to stop taking her responsibilities or providing her for her necessities so it shows tolerance and patience but these scholars take it to explain nothing and sometimes go to extreme like that bill also said no treatment by men to women and such things which i think are completely wrong and so on other things 

Well now i will come to that point where some think its okay to hit women cause they did something wrong or have caused trouble to there husbands which i strongly deny that they have any right to do that cause women are human being too , you are born from a women too so who gives any men to have a right to hit her wife would they love there daughters,sisters,mothers to get beaten i do not think so but is a child is grown in that¬†environment¬†he may think its okay and when he¬†grows up he will do the same and that is what is¬†happening¬†in¬†India¬†know ,in¬†India¬†the¬†domestic violence is risen¬†a lot¬†and there are lots of crimes¬†against¬†women but the thing is they do¬†not even realize it the women think its the man right to beat them and these man also think women are for homes and yeah they can beat them use them how ever they wish i have this website page which tells what happens there i just read the first line that “my husband comes locks the door play music and beat me with belt “it was so sad to read it that i could not read it further¬†

http://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-india-29708612

Now please do not deny the reports or¬†at least¬† the¬†statements¬†of women many men ¬†will deny it¬†or¬†Indian¬†man some will say the reports are a lie but how can the¬†cry’s¬†of women the flash separated¬†form¬†women the broken teeth lie ?how can they lie you know why i thought to write about this i was watching an¬†Indian¬†serial and it showed something similar and i closed it i was quite sad i wish i¬†could remove this from the world , i wish i could remove violence against women if i had super powers i would but i do not have that so i would raise my voice against it that is my super power i am not against a specific country cause some may think she is just putting bad light on us but i am against the crime where ever it happens its wrong and please stop making excuses for it like it happens there too so ¬†to stop something you have to¬†accept¬†it¬†exits¬†and then after¬†accepting¬†realizing¬†you have to say its wrong you have to make others realize and then you have to raise your¬†voice¬†be united if you see this crime report it help the victim support the victim

DO NOT BLAME THE VICTIM CAUSE THIS IS THE LEAST WE CAN DO TO HELP HER

But the good thing is that in Pakistan the domestic violence bill has been approved in past there was no law against it and Pakistan was too in the 20 list of countries but know it has the law against it 

http://www.dawn.com/news/1241751

And those that had been the victim of domestic violence i want to say your not alone there is help there are people who care for you you do not deserve this the assaulter may make you think its your fault but it is not never cause and it may be easy to leave an abusive relationship but you have to do it cause you have to love yourself first then anyone else and nothing is difficult if you put your mind into it

cause no men has a right to hit women whatever the reason may be 

12f39caa366aabf8a67b278776fe550e268af98c2f12c57dd872b551c43105f8really its better to alone than to take abuse

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q86NEKiexts

this song matches domestic  so deep it shows it so deeply explains it so well

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  4. Excellent post, and also tragic. And you know, it makes me think about misogynists in general, and that – from that list you have in your post about things that a man can do which are abusive – even if a man *doesn’t* hit a woman – he can still control her completely, like she is a slave. I can’t believe that it is still happening anywhere that men are beating women, but they are, and how long will it take before the law finally catches up with psychological abuse and control. Many misogynists are so careful never to hit a woman, but they are so abusive to her mind, mental health, emotional health and nervous system, that she is always terrified. Thank you for writing about an important topic, and also covering the international perspective. ‚̧

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  5. and thank you for reading it i really appreciate , i wanted to highlight an international problem , a problem where women are considered weak so they are abused and many women feel like its there fault which is really not there’s take care lots of love

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